What Kids really want from their Parents

What Kids Really Want From Their Parents

When people think about what kids want most, the first things that come to mind are often toys, clothes, or gadgets. While children may ask for those things, the truth is much deeper. What kids truly want from their parents is not found on store shelves—it’s found in how we love, guide, and spend time with them.

The first and most important thing kids want is love and affection. They want to hear “I love you,” get hugs, and know that they are valued no matter what. That unconditional love is the foundation of their confidence and self-worth.

They also want attention and time. Children notice when parents are too busy or distracted. What matters to them is when you sit down to play a game, listen to their stories, or simply share a meal without distractions. Those little moments mean more than expensive gifts.

Kids also need security and stability. Having a safe home, knowing what to expect, and feeling protected gives them the courage to explore the world and try new things. Along with that comes guidance and boundaries. Rules may frustrate them, but deep down children feel cared for when parents set clear expectations and keep them safe.

Another big need is encouragement and support. Kids want to know their parents believe in them. Celebrating small wins, cheering them on in school or sports, and helping them when they fall shows them they are not alone in their journey.

Just as important, children want respect and understanding. Listening to their opinions, validating their feelings, and treating them with kindness helps them feel valued and teaches them to respect others.

Finally, kids want their parents to be role models. Children learn more from what they see than from what they’re told. When parents demonstrate honesty, hard work, compassion, and responsibility, those lessons stick far longer than lectures.

At the end of the day, what kids want most from their parents isn’t complicated. They want love, time, safety, guidance, encouragement, respect, and good examples to follow. These gifts shape who they become and last far longer than anything money can buy.

To Inspire, Inform, Encourage, and Empower Others.

Marvin Dixon/Founder

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